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Chapter .1 - DESIRE

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The first step towards riches

         WHEN Edwin C. Barnes climbed down from the freight train in Orange,
N. J., more than thirty years ago, he may have resembled a tramp, but his
thoughts were those of a king!
As he made his way from the railroad tracks to Thomas A. Edison's office,
his mind was at work. He saw himself standing in Edison's presence. He heard
himself asking Mr. Edison for an opportunity to carry out the one CONSUMING
OBSESSION OF HIS LIFE, a BURNING DESIRE to become the business associate
of the great inventor.
Barnes' desire was not a hope! It was not a wish! It was a keen, pulsating
DESIRE, which transcended everything else. It was DEFINITE.
The desire was not new when he approached Edison. It had been Barnes'
dominating desire for a long time. In the beginning, when the desire first appeared
in his mind, it may have been, probably was, only a wish, but it was no mere
wish when he appeared before Edison with it.
A few years later, Edwin C. Barnes again stood before Edison, in the same
office where he first met the inventor. This time his DESIRE had been translated
into reality. He was in business with Edison. The dominating DREAM OF HIS LIFE
had become a reality. Today, people who know Barnes envy him, because of the
"break" life yielded him. They see him in the days of his triumph, without taking
the trouble to investigate the cause of his success.
Barnes succeeded because he chose a definite goal, placed all his energy,
all his will power, all his effort, everything back of that goal. He did not become
the partner of Edison the day he arrived. He was content to start in the most
menial work, as long as it provided an opportunity to take even one step toward
his cherished goal.
Five years passed before the chance he had been seeking made its
appearance. During all those years not one ray of hope, not one promise of attainment of his DESIRE had been held out to him. To everyone, except himself,
he appeared only another cog in the Edison business wheel, but in his own mind,
HE WAS THE PARTNER OF EDISON EVERY MINUTE OF THE TIME, from the
very day that he first went to work there.
It is a remarkable illustration of the power of a DEFINITE DESIRE. Barnes
won his goal, because he wanted to be a business associate of Mr. Edison, more
than he wanted anything else. He created a plan by which to attain that purpose.
But he BURNED ALL BRIDGES BEHIND HIM.
He stood by his DESIRE until it became the dominating obsession of his
life— and— finally, a fact.
When he went to Orange, he did not say to himself, "I will try to induce
Edison to give me a job of some soft." He said, "I will see Edison, and put him on
notice that I have come to go into business with him.
He did not say, "I will work there for a few months, and if I get no
encouragement, I will quit and get a job somewhere else." He did say, "I will start
anywhere. I will do anything Edison tells me to do, but before I am through, I will
be his associate."
He did not say, "I will keep my eyes open for another opportunity, in case
I fail to get what I want in the Edison organization." He said, "There is but ONE
thing in this world that I am determined to have, and that is a business
association with Thomas A. Edison. I will burn all bridges behind me, and stake
my ENTIRE FUTURE on my ability to get what I want."
He left himself no possible way of retreat. He had to win or perish!
That is all there is to the Barnes story of success! A long while ago, a great
warrior faced a situation which made it necessary for him to make a decision
which insured his success on the battlefield. He was about to send his armies
against a powerful foe, whose men outnumbered his own. He loaded his soldiers
into boats, sailed to the enemy's country, unloaded soldiers and equipment, then
gave the order to burn the ships that had carried them. Addressing his men
before the first battle, he said, "You see the boats going up in smoke. That means
that we cannot leave these shores alive unless we win! We now have no choice—
we win, or we perish! They won.
Every person who wins in any undertaking must be willing to burn his
ships and cut all sources of retreat. Only by so doing can one be sure of
maintaining that state of mind known as a BURNING DESIRE TO WIN, essential
to success. 

The morning after the great Chicago fire, a group of merchants stood on
State Street, looking at the smoking remains of what had been their stores. They
went into a conference to decide if they would try to rebuild, or leave Chicago
and start over in a more promising section of the country. They reached a
decision—all except one—to leave Chicago.
The merchant who decided to stay and rebuild pointed a finger at the
remains of his store, and said, "Gentlemen, on that very spot I will build the
world's greatest store, no matter how many times it may burn down."
That was more than fifty years ago. The store was built. It stands there
today, a towering monument to the power of that state of mind known as a
BURNING DESIRE. The easy thing for Marshal Field to have done, would have
been exactly what his fellow merchants did. When the going was hard, and the
future looked dismal, they pulled up and went where the going seemed easier.
Mark well this difference between Marshal Field and the other merchants,
because it is the same difference which distinguishes Edwin C. Barnes from
thousands of other young men who have worked in the Edison organization. It is
the same difference which distinguishes practically all who succeed from those
who fail.
Every human being who reaches the age of understanding of the purpose
of money, wishes for it. Wishing will not bring riches. But desiring riches with a
state of mind that becomes an obsession, then planning definite ways and means
to acquire riches, and backing those plans with persistence which does not
recognize failure, will bring riches.
The method by which DESIRE for riches can be transmuted into its
financial equivalent, consists of six definite, practical steps, viz:
First. Fix in your mind the exact amount of money you
desire. It is not sufficient merely to say "I want plenty of money." Be
definite as to the amount. (There is a psychological reason for
definiteness which will be described in a subsequent chapter).
Second. Determine exactly what you intend to give in return
for the money you desire. (There is no such reality as "something
for nothing.)
Third. Establish a definite date when you intend to possess
the money you desire.

Fourth. Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire,
and begin at once, whether you are ready or not, to put this plan
into action.
Fifth. Write out a clear, concise statement of the amount of
money you intend to acquire, name the time limit for its
acquisition, state what you intend to give in return for the money,
and describe clearly the plan through which you intend to
accumulate it.
Sixth. Read your written statement aloud, twice daily, once
just before retiring at night, and once after arising in the morning.
AS YOU READ— SEE AND FEEL AND BELIEVE YOURSELF
ALREADY IN POSSESSION OF THE MONEY.
It is important that you follow the instructions described in these six steps.
It is especially important that you observe, and follow the instructions in the
sixth paragraph. You may complain that it is impossible for you to "see yourself
in possession of money" before you actually have it. Here is where a BURNING
DESIRE will come to your aid. If you truly DESIRE money so keenly that your
desire is an obsession, you will have no difficulty in convincing yourself that you
will acquire it. The object is to want money, and to become so determined to
have it that you CONVINCE yourself you will have it.
Only those who become "money conscious" ever accumulate great riches.
"Money consciousness" means that the mind has become so thoroughly saturated
with the DESIRE for money, that one can see one's self already in possession of it.
To the uninitiated, who has not been schooled in the working principles of
the human mind, these instructions may appear impractical. It may be helpful, to
all who fail to recognize the soundness of the six steps, to know that the
information they convey, was received from Andrew Carnegie, who began as an
ordinary laborer in the steel mills, but managed, despite his humble beginning,
to make these principles yield him a fortune of considerably more than one
hundred million dollars.
It may be of further help to know that the six steps here recommended
were carefully scrutinized by the late Thomas A. Edison, who placed his stamp
of approval upon them as being, not only the steps essential for the accumulation
of money, but neccessary for the attainment of any definite goal.
The steps call for no "hard labor." They call for no sacrifice. They do not
require one to become ridiculous, or credulous. To apply them calls for no great
amount of education. But the successful application of these six steps does call
for sufficient imagination to enable one to see, and to understand, that
accumulation of money cannot be left to chance, good fortune, and luck. One
must realize that all who have accumulated great fortunes, first did a certain
amount of dreaming, hoping, wishing, DESIRING, and PLANNING before they
acquired money.
You may as well know, right here, that you can never have riches in great
quantities, UNLESS you can work yourself into a white heat of DESIRE for
money, and actually BELIEVE you will possess it.
You may as well know, also that every great leader, from the dawn of
civilization down to the present, was a dreamer. Christianity is the greatest
potential power in the world today, because its founder was an intense dreamer
who had the vision and the imagination to see realities in their mental and
spiritual form before they had been transmuted into physical form.
If you do not see great riches in your imagination, you will never see them
in your bank balance.
Never, in the history of America has there been so great an opportunity
for practical dreamers as now exists. The six year economic collapse has reduced
all men, substantially, to the same level. A new race is about to be run. The stakes
represent huge fortunes which will be accumulated within the next ten years.
The rules of the race have changed, because we now live in a CHANGED
WORLD that definitely favors the masses, those who had but little or no
opportunity to win under the conditions existing during the depression, when
fear paralyzed growth and development.
We who are in this race for riches, should be encouraged to know that this
changed world in which we live is demanding new ideas, new ways of doing
things, new leaders, new inventions, new methods of teaching, new methods of
marketing, new books, new literature, new features for the radio, new ideas for
moving pictures. Back of all this demand for new and better things, there is one
quality which one must possess to win, and that is DEFINITENESS OF
PURPOSE, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning DESIRE to possess
it.The business depression marked the death of one age, and the birth of
another. This changed world requires practical dreamers who can, and will put
their dreams into action. The practical dreamers have always been, and always
will be the pattern-makers of civilization.
We who desire to accumulate riches, should remember the real leaders of
the world always have been men who harnessed, and put into practical use, the
intangible, unseen forces of unborn opportunity, and have converted those
forces, [or impulses of thought], into sky-scrapers, cities, factories, airplanes,
automobiles, and every form of convenience that makes life more pleasant.
Tolerance, and an open mind are practical necessities of the dreamer of
today. Those who are afraid of new ideas are doomed before they start. Never
has there been a time more favorable to pioneers than the present. True, there is
no wild and woolly west to be conquered, as in the days of the Covered Wagon;
but there is a vast business, financial, and industrial world to be remoulded and
redirected along new and better lines.
In planning to acquire your share of the riches, let no one influence you to
scorn the dreamer. To win the big stakes in this changed world, you must catch
the spirit of the great pioneers of the past, whose dreams have given to
civilization all that it has of value, the spirit which serves as the life-blood of our
own country— your opportunity and mine, to develop and market our talents.
Let us not forget, Columbus dreamed of an Unknown world, staked his
life on the existence of such a world, and discovered it!
Copernicus, the great astronomer, dreamed of a multiplicity of worlds,
and revealed them! No one denounced him as "impractical" after he had
triumphed. Instead, the world worshipped at his shrine, thus proving once more
that "SUCCESS REQUIRES NO APOLOGIES, FAILURE PERMITS NO ALIBIS."
If the thing you wish to do is right, and you believe in it, go ahead and do it!
Put your dream across, and never mind what "they" say if you meet with
temporary defeat, for "they," perhaps, do not know that EVERY FAILURE
BRINGS WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT SUCCESS.
Henry Ford, poor and uneducated, dreamed of a horseless carriage, went
to work with what tools he possessed, without waiting for opportunity to favor
him, and now evidence of his dream belts the entire earth. He has put more
wheels into operation than any man who ever lived, because he was not afraid to
back his dreams.
Thomas Edison dreamed of a lamp that could be operated by electricity,
began where he stood to put his dream into action, and despite more than ten
thousand failures, he stood by that dream until he made it a physical reality.
Practical dreamers DO NOT QUIT!
Whelan dreamed of a chain of cigar stores, transformed his dream into
action, and now the United Cigar Stores occupy the best corners in America.
Lincoln dreamed of freedom for the black slaves, put his dream into
action, and barely missed living to see a united North and South translate his
dream into reality.
The Wright brothers dreamed of a machine that would fly through the air.
Now one may see evidence all over the world, that they dreamed soundly.
Marconi dreamed of a system for harnessing the intangible forces of the
ether. Evidence that he did not dream in vain, may be found in every wireless
and radio in the world. Moreover, Marconi's dream brought the humblest cabin,
and the most stately manor house side by side. It made the people of every
nation on earth back-door neighbors. It gave the President of the United States a
medium by which he may talk to all the people of America at one time, and on
short notice. It may interest you to know that Marconi's "friends" had him taken
into custody, and examined in a psychopathic hospital, when he announced he
had discovered a principle through which he could send messages through the
air, without the aid of wires, or other direct physical means of communication.
The dreamers of today fare better.
The world has become accustomed to new discoveries. Nay, it has shown
a willingness to reward the dreamer who gives the world a new idea.
"The greatest achievement was, at first, and for a time, but a dream."
"The oak sleeps in the acorn. The bird waits in the egg, and in the highest
vision of the soul, a waking angel stirs. DREAMS ARE THE SEEDLINGS OF
REALITY."
Awake, arise, and assert yourself, you dreamers of the world. Your star is
now in the ascendency. The world depression brought the opportunity you have
been waiting for. It taught people humility, tolerance, and open-mindedness.
The world is filled with an abundance of OPPORTUNITY which the
dreamers of the past never knew.
A BURNING DESIRE TO BE, AND TO DO is the starting point from
which the dreamer must take off. Dreams are not born of indifference, laziness,
or lack of ambition.
The world no longer scoffs at the dreamer, nor calls him impractical. If
you think it does, take a trip to Tennessee, and witness what a dreamer President has done in the way of harnessing, and using the great water power of America.
A score of years ago, such a dream would have seemed like madness.
You have been disappointed, you have undergone defeat during the
depression, you have felt the great heart within you crushed until it bled. Take
courage, for these experiences have tempered the spiritual metal of which you
are made—they are assets of incomparable value.
Remember, too, that all who succeed in life get off to a bad start, and pass
through many heartbreaking struggles before they "arrive." The turning point in
the lives of those who succeed, usually comes at the moment of some crisis,
through which they are introduced to their "other selves."
John Bunyan wrote the Pilgrim's Progress, which is among the finest of all
English literature, after he had been confined in prison and sorely punished,
because of his views on the subject of religion.
O. Henry discovered the genius which slept within his brain, after he had
met with great misfortune, and was confined in a prison cell, in Columbus, Ohio.
Being FORCED, through misfortune, to become acquainted with his "other self,"
and to use his IMAGINATION, he discovered himself to be a great author
instead of a miserable criminal and outcast. Strange and varied are the ways of
life, and stranger still are the ways of Infinite Intelligence, through which men
are sometimes forced to undergo all sorts of punishment before discovering their
own brains, and their own capacity to create useful ideas through imagination.
Edison, the world's greatest inventor and scientist, was a "tramp"
telegraph operator, he failed innumerable times before he was driven, finally, to
the discovery of the genius which slept within his brain.
Charles Dickens began by pasting labels on blacking pots. The tragedy of
his first love penetrated the depths of his soul, and converted him into one of the
world's truly great authors. That tragedy produced, first, David Copperfield,
then a succession of other works that made this a richer and better world for all
who read his books. Disappointment over love affairs, generally has the effect of
driving men to drink, and women to ruin; and this, because most people never
learn the art of transmuting their strongest emotions into dreams of a
constructive nature.
Helen Keller became deaf, dumb, and blind shortly after birth. Despite her
greatest misfortune, she has written her name indelibly in the pages of the
history of the great. Her entire life has served as evidence that no one ever is
defeated until defeat has been accepted as a reality.

Robert Burns was an illiterate country lad, he was cursed by poverty, and
grew up to be a drunkard in the bargain. The world was made better for his
having lived, because he clothed beautiful thoughts in poetry, and thereby
plucked a thorn and planted a rose in its place.
Booker T. Washington was born in slavery, handicapped by race and
color. Because he was tolerant, had an open mind at all times, on all subjects, and
was a DREAMER, he left his impress for good on an entire race.
Beethoven was deaf, Milton was blind, but their names will last as long as
time endures, because they dreamed and translated their dreams into organized
thought.
Before passing to the next chapter, kindle anew in your mind the fire of
hope, faith, courage, and tolerance. If you have these states of mind, and a
working knowledge of the principles described, all else that you need will come
to you, when you are READY for it. Let Emerson state the thought in these
words, "Every proverb, every book, every byword that belongs to thee for aid
and comfort shall surely come home through open or winding passages. Every
friend whom not thy fantastic will, but the great and tender soul in thee craveth,
shall lock thee in his embrace."
There is a difference between WISHING for a thing and being READY to
receive it. No one is ready for a thing, until he believes he can acquire it. The state
of mind must be BELIEF, not mere hope or wish. Open-mindedness is essential
for belief. Closed minds do not inspire faith, courage, and belief.
Remember, no more effort is required to aim high in life, to demand
abundance and prosperity, than is required to accept misery and poverty. A
great poet has correctly stated this universal truth through these lines:
"I bargained with Life for a penny,
And Life would pay no more,
However I begged at evening
When I counted my scanty store. .
.
"For Life is a.just employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
.
"I worked for a menial's hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would have willingly paid."
DESIRE OUTWITS MOTHER NATURE
As a fitting climax to this chapter, I wish to introduce one of the most
unusual persons I have ever known. I first saw him twenty-four years ago, a few
minutes after he was born. He came into the world without any physical sign of
ears, and the doctor admitted, when pressed for an opinion, that the child might
be deaf, and mute for life.
I challenged the doctor's opinion. I had the right to do so, I was the child's
father. I, too, reached a decision, and rendered an opinion, but I expressed the
opinion silently, in the secrecy of my own heart. I decided that my son would
hear and speak. Nature could send me a child without ears, but Nature could not
induce me to accept the reality of the affliction.
In my own mind I knew that my son would hear and speak. How? I was
sure there must be a way, and I knew I would find it. I thought of the words of
the immortal Emerson, "The whole course of things goes to teach us faith. We
need only obey.
There is guidance for each of us, and by lowly listening, we shall hear the
right word."
The right word? DESIRE! More than anything else, I DESIRED that my
son should not be a deaf mute. From that desire I never receded, not for a second.
Many years previously, I had written, "Our only limitations are those we
set up in our own minds." For the first time, I wondered if that statement were
true. Lying on the bed in front of me was a newly born child, without the natural
equipment of hearing. Even though he might hear and speak, he was obviously
disfigured for life. Surely, this was a limitation which that child had not set up in
his own mind.
What could I do about it? Somehow I would find a way to transplant into
that child's mind my own BURNING DESIRE for ways and means of conveying
sound to his brain without the aid of ears. 
As soon as the child was old enough to cooperate, I would fill his mind so
completely with a BURNING DESIRE to hear, that Nature would, by methods of
her own, translate it into physical reality.
All this thinking took place in my own mind, but I spoke of it to no one.
Every day I renewed the pledge I had made to myself, not to accept a deaf mute
for a son.
As he grew older, and began to take notice of things around him, we
observed that he had a slight degree of hearing. When he reached the age when
children usually begin talking, he made no attempt to speak, but we could tell by
his actions that he could hear certain sounds slightly. That was all I wanted to
know! I was convinced that if he could hear, even slightly, he might develop still
greater hearing capacity. Then something happened which gave me hope. It
came from an entirely unexpected source.
We bought a victrola. When the child heard the music for the first time, he
went into ecstasies, and promptly appropriated the machine. He soon showed a
preference for certain records, among them, "It's a Long Way to Tipperary." On
one occasion, he played that piece over and over, for almost two hours, standing
in front of the victrola, with his teeth clamped on the edge of the case. The significance
of this self-formed habit of his did not become clear to us until years afterward,
for we had never heard of the principle of "bone conduction" of sound at that
time.
Shortly after he appropriated the victrola, I discovered that he could hear
me quite clearly when I spoke with my lips touching his mastoid bone, or at the
base of the brain. These discoveries placed in my possession the necessary media
by which I began to translate into reality my Burning Desire to help my son
develop hearing and speech. By that time he was making stabs at speaking
certain words. The outlook was far from encouraging, but DESIRE BACKED BY
FAITH knows no such word as impossible.
Having determined that he could hear the sound of my voice plainly, I
began, immediately, to transfer to his mind the desire to hear and speak. I soon
discovered that the child enjoyed bedtime stories, so I went to work, creating
stories designed to develop in him self-reliance, imagination, and a keen desire to
hear and to be normal.
There was one story in particular, which I emphasized by giving it some
new and dramatic coloring each time it was told. It was designed to plant in his 
EVERY ADVERSITY BRINGS WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT
ADVANTAGE, I must confess that I had not the slightest idea how this affliction
could ever become an asset. However, I continued my practice of wrapping that
philosophy in bedtime stories, hoping the time would come when he would find
some plan by which his handicap could be made to serve some useful purpose.
Reason told me plainly, that there was no adequate compensation for the lack of
ears and natural hearing equipment. DESIRE backed by FAITH, pushed reason
aside, and inspired me to carry on. 
As I analyze the experience in retrospect, I can see now, that my son's faith
in me had much to do with the astounding results. He did not question anything I
told him. I sold him the idea that he had a distinct advantage over his older
brother, and that this advantage would reflect itself in many ways. For example,
the teachers in school would observe that he had no ears, and, because of this,
they would show him special attention and treat him with extraordinary
kindness. They always did. His mother saw to that, by visiting the teachers and
arranging with them to give the child the extra attention necessary. I sold him the
idea, too, that when he became old enough to sell newspapers, (his older brother
had already become a newspaper merchant), he would have a big advantage
over his brother, for the reason that people would pay him extra money for his
wares, because they could see that he was a bright, industrious boy, despite the
fact he had no ears. 
We could notice that, gradually, the child's hearing was improving.
Moreover, he had not the slightest tendency to be self-conscious, because of his
affliction. When he was about seven, he showed the first evidence that our
method of servicing his mind was bearing fruit. For several months he begged
for the privilege of selling newspapers, but his mother would not give her
consent. She was afraid that his deafness made it unsafe for him to go on the
street alone. 
Finally, he took matters in his own hands. One afternoon, when he was
left at home with the servants, he climbed through the kitchen window, shinnied
to the ground, and set out on his own. He borrowed six cents in capital from the
neighborhood shoemaker, invested it in papers, sold out, reinvested, and kept
repeating until late in the evening. After balancing his accounts, and paying back
the six cents he had borrowed from his banker, he had a net profit of forty-two
cents. When we got home that night, we found him in bed asleep, with the
money tightly clenched in his hand. 
His mother opened his hand, removed the coins, and cried. Of all things!
Crying over her son's first victory seemed so inappropriate. My reaction was the
reverse. I laughed heartily, for I knew that my endeavor to plant in the child's
mind an attitude of faith in himself had been successful.
His mother saw, in his first business venture, a little deaf boy who had
gone out in the streets and risked his life to earn money. I saw a brave, ambitious,
self-reliant little business man whose stock in himself had been increased a
hundred percent, because he had gone into business on his own initiative, and
had won. The transaction pleased me, because I knew that he had given evidence
of a trait of resourcefulness that would go with him all through life. Later events
proved this to be true. When his older brother wanted something, he would lie
down on the floor, kick his feet in the air, cry for it— and get it. When the "little
deaf boy" wanted something, he would plan a way to earn the money, then buy
it for himself. He still follows that plan!
Truly, my own son has taught me that handicaps can be converted into
stepping stones on which one may climb toward some worthy goal, unless they
are accepted as obstacles, and used as alibis.
The little deaf boy went through the grades, high school, and college
without being able to hear his teachers, excepting when they shouted loudly, at
close range. He did not go to a school for the deaf.
WE WOULD NOT PERMIT HIM TO LEARN THE SIGN LANGUAGE.
We were determined that he should live a normal life, and associate with normal
children, and we stood by that decision, although it cost us many heated debates
with school officials.
While he was in high school, he tried an electrical hearing aid, but it was
of no value to him; due, we believed, to a condition that was disclosed when the
child was six, by Dr. J. Gordon Wilson, of Chicago, when he operated on one side
of the boy's head, and discovered that there was no sign of natural hearing
equipment.
During his last week in college, (eighteen years after the operation),
something happened which marked the most important turning-point of his life.
Through what seemed to be mere chance, he came into possession of another
electrical hearing device, which was sent to him on trial. He was slow about
testing it, due to his disappointment with a similar device. Finally he picked the
instrument up, and more or less carelessly, placed it on his head, hooked up the
battery, and lo! as if by a stroke of magic, his lifelong DESIRE FOR NORMAL
HEARING BECAME A REALITY! For the first time in his life he heard
mind the thought that his affliction was not a liability, but an asset of great value.
Despite the fact that all the philosophy I had examined clearly indicated that
EVERY ADVERSITY BRINGS WITH IT THE SEED OF AN EQUIVALENT
ADVANTAGE, I must confess that I had not the slightest idea how this affliction
could ever become an asset. However, I continued my practice of wrapping that
philosophy in bedtime stories, hoping the time would come when he would find
some plan by which his handicap could be made to serve some useful purpose.
Reason told me plainly, that there was no adequate compensation for the lack of
ears and natural hearing equipment. DESIRE backed by FAITH, pushed reason
aside, and inspired me to carry on.
As I analyze the experience in retrospect, I can see now, that my son's faith
in me had much to do with the astounding results. He did not question anything I
told him. I sold him the idea that he had a distinct advantage over his older
brother, and that this advantage would reflect itself in many ways. For example,
the teachers in school would observe that he had no ears, and, because of this,
they would show him special attention and treat him with extraordinary
kindness. They always did. His mother saw to that, by visiting the teachers and
arranging with them to give the child the extra attention necessary. I sold him the
idea, too, that when he became old enough to sell newspapers, (his older brother
had already become a newspaper merchant), he would have a big advantage
over his brother, for the reason that people would pay him extra money for his
wares, because they could see that he was a bright, industrious boy, despite the
fact he had no ears.
We could notice that, gradually, the child's hearing was improving.
Moreover, he had not the slightest tendency to be self-conscious, because of his
affliction. When he was about seven, he showed the first evidence that our
method of servicing his mind was bearing fruit. For several months he begged
for the privilege of selling newspapers, but his mother would not give her
consent. She was afraid that his deafness made it unsafe for him to go on the
street alone.
Finally, he took matters in his own hands. One afternoon, when he was
left at home with the servants, he climbed through the kitchen window, shinnied
to the ground, and set out on his own. He borrowed six cents in capital from the
neighborhood shoemaker, invested it in papers, sold out, reinvested, and kept
repeating until late in the evening. After balancing his accounts, and paying back
the six cents he had borrowed from his banker, he had a net profit of forty-two
cents. When we got home that night, we found him in bed asleep, with the
money tightly clenched in his hand.
His mother opened his hand, removed the coins, and cried. Of all things!
Crying over her son's first victory seemed so inappropriate. My reaction was the
reverse. I laughed heartily, for I knew that my endeavor to plant in the child's
mind an attitude of faith in himself had been successful.
His mother saw, in his first business venture, a little deaf boy who had
gone out in the streets and risked his life to earn money. I saw a brave, ambitious,
self-reliant little business man whose stock in himself had been increased a
hundred percent, because he had gone into business on his own initiative, and
had won. The transaction pleased me, because I knew that he had given evidence
of a trait of resourcefulness that would go with him all through life. Later events
proved this to be true. When his older brother wanted something, he would lie
down on the floor, kick his feet in the air, cry for it— and get it. When the "little
deaf boy" wanted something, he would plan a way to earn the money, then buy
it for himself. He still follows that plan!
Truly, my own son has taught me that handicaps can be converted into
stepping stones on which one may climb toward some worthy goal, unless they
are accepted as obstacles, and used as alibis.
The little deaf boy went through the grades, high school, and college
without being able to hear his teachers, excepting when they shouted loudly, at
close range. He did not go to a school for the deaf.
WE WOULD NOT PERMIT HIM TO LEARN THE SIGN LANGUAGE.
We were determined that he should live a normal life, and associate with normal
children, and we stood by that decision, although it cost us many heated debates
with school officials.
While he was in high school, he tried an electrical hearing aid, but it was
of no value to him; due, we believed, to a condition that was disclosed when the
child was six, by Dr. J. Gordon Wilson, of Chicago, when he operated on one side
of the boy's head, and discovered that there was no sign of natural hearing
equipment.
During his last week in college, (eighteen years after the operation),
something happened which marked the most important turning-point of his life.
Through what seemed to be mere chance, he came into possession of another
electrical hearing device, which was sent to him on trial. He was slow about
testing it, due to his disappointment with a similar device. Finally he picked the
instrument up, and more or less carelessly, placed it on his head, hooked up the
battery, and lo! as if by a stroke of magic, his lifelong DESIRE FOR NORMAL
HEARING BECAME A REALITY! For the first time in his life he heard practically as well as any person with normal hearing. "God moves in mysterious
ways, His wonders to perform."
Overjoyed because of the Changed World which had been brought to him
through his hearing device, he rushed to the telephone, called his mother, and
heard her voice perfectly. The next day he plainly heard the voices of his
professors in class, for the first time in his life! Previously he could hear them
only when they shouted, at short range. He heard the radio. He heard the talking
pictures. For the first time in his life, he could converse freely with other people,
without the necessity of their having to speak loudly. Truly, he had come into
possession of a Changed World. We had refused to accept Nature's error, and, by
PERSISTENT DESIRE, we had induced Nature to correct that error, through the
only practical means available.
DESIRE had commenced to pay dividends, but the victory was not yet
complete. The boy still had to find a definite and practical way to convert his
handicap into an equivalent asset.
Hardly realizing the significance of what had already been accomplished,
but intoxicated with the joy of his newly discovered world of sound, he wrote a
letter to the manufacturer of the hearing-aid, enthusiastically describing his
experience. Something in his letter; something, perhaps which was not written
on the lines, but back of them; caused the company to invite him to New York.
When be arrived, he was escorted through the factory, and while talking with the
Chief Engineer, telling him about his changed world, a hunch, an idea, or an
inspiration— call it what you wish— flashed into his mind. It was this impulse of
thought which converted his affliction into an asset, destined to pay dividends in
both money and happiness to thousands for all time to come.
The sum and substance of that impulse of thought was this: It occurred to
him that he might be of help to the millions of deafened people who go through
life without the benefit of hearing devices, if he could find a way to tell them the
story of his Changed World. Then and there, he reached a decision to devote the
remainder of his life to rendering useful service to the hard of hearing.
For an entire month, he carried on an intensive research, during which he
analyzed the entire marketing system of the manufacturer of the hearing device,
and created ways and means of communicating with the hard of hearing all over
the world for the purpose of sharing with them his newly discovered "Changed
World." When this was done, he put in writing a two-year plan, based upon his
findings. When he presented the plan to the company, he was instantly given a
position, for the purpose of carrying out his ambition. Little did he dream, when he went to work, that he was destined to bring
hope and practical relief to thousands of deafened people who, without his help,
would have been doomed forever to deaf mutism.
Shortly after he became associated with the manufacturer of his hearing
aid, he invited me to attend a class conducted by his company, for the purpose of
teaching deaf mutes to hear, and to speak. I had never heard of such a form of
education, therefore I visited the class, skeptical but hopeful that my time would
not be entirely wasted. Here I saw a demonstration which gave me a greatly
enlarged vision of what I had done to arouse and keep alive in my son's mind the
DESIRE for normal hearing. I saw deaf mutes actually being taught to hear and
to speak, through application of the self-same principle I had used, more than
twenty years previously, in saving my son from deaf mutism.
Thus, through some strange turn of the Wheel of Fate, my son, Blair, and I
have been destined to aid in correcting deaf mutism for those as yet unborn,
because we are the only living human beings, as far as I know, who have
established definitely the fact that deaf mutism can be corrected to the extent of
restoring to normal life those who suffer with this affliction. It has been done for
one; it will be done for others.
There is no doubt in my mind that Blair would have been a deaf mute all
his life, if his mother and I had not managed to shape his mind as we did. The
doctor who attended at his birth told us, confidentially, the child might never
hear or speak. A few weeks ago, Dr. Irving Voorhees, a noted specialist on such
cases, examined Blair very thoroughly. He was astounded when he learned how
well my son now hears, and speaks, and said his examination indicated that
"theoretically, the boy should not be able to hear at all." But the lad does hear,
despite the fact that X-ray pictures show there is no opening in the skull,
whatsoever, from where his ears should be to the brain.
When I planted in his mind the DESIRE to hear and talk, and live as a
normal person, there went with that impulse some strange influence which
caused Nature to become bridge-builder, and span the gulf of silence between his
brain and the outer world, by some means which the keenest medical specialists
have not been able to interpret. It would be sacrilege for me to even conjecture as
to how Nature performed this miracle. It would be unforgivable if I neglected to
tell the world as much as I know of the humble part I assumed in the strange
experience. It is my duty, and a privilege to say I believe, and not without reason,
that nothing is impossible to the person who backs DESIRE with enduring
FAITH. Verily, a BURNING DESIRE has devious ways of transmuting itself into
its physical equivalent. Blair DESIRED normal hearing; now he has it! He was
born with a handicap which might easily have sent one with a less defined
DESIRE to the street with a bundle of pencils and a tin cup. That handicap now
promises to serve as the medium by which he will render useful service to many
millions of hard of hearing, also, to give him useful employment at adequate
financial compensation the remainder of his life.
The little "white lies" I planted in his mind when he was a child, by
leading him to BELIEVE his affliction would become a great asset, which he
could capitalize, has justified itself. Verily, there is nothing, right or wrong,
which BELIEF, plus BURNING DESIRE, cannot make real. These qualities are
free to everyone.
In all my experience in dealing with men and women who had personal
problems, I never handled a single case which more definitely demonstrates the
power of DESIRE. Authors sometimes make the mistake of writing of subjects of
which they have but superficial, or very elementary knowledge. It has been my
good fortune to have had the privilege of testing the soundness of the POWER
OF DESIRE, through the affliction of my own son. Perhaps it was providential
that the experience came as it did, for surely no one is better prepared than he, to
serve as an example of what happens when DESIRE is put to the test. If Mother
Nature bends to the will of desire, is it logical that mere men can defeat a burning desire?
Strange and imponderable is the power of the human mind! We do not
understand the method by which it uses every circumstance, every individual,
every physical thing within its reach, as a means of transmuting DESIRE into its
physical counterpart. Perhaps science will uncover this secret.
I planted in my son's mind the DESIRE to hear and to speak as any normal
person hears and speaks. That DESIRE has now become a reality. I planted in his
mind the DESIRE to convert his greatest handicap into his greatest asset. That
DESIRE has been realized. The modus operandi by which this astounding result
was achieved is not hard to describe. It consisted of three very definite facts; first,
I MIXED FAITH with the DESIRE for normal hearing, which I passed on to my
son. Second, I communicated my desire to him in every conceivable way
available, through persistent, continuous effort, over a period of years. Third, HE
BELIEVED ME!
As this chapter was being completed, news came of the death of Mme.
Schuman-Heink. One short paragraph in the news dispatch gives the clue to this unusual woman's stupendous success as a singer. I quote the paragraph, because
the clue it contains is none other than DESIRE.
Early in her career, Mme. Schuman-Heink visited the director of the
Vienna Court Opera, to have him test her voice. But, he did not test it. After
taking one look at the awkward and poorly dressed girl, he exclaimed, none too
gently, "With such a face, and with no personality at all, how can you ever expect
to succeed in opera? My good child, give up the idea. Buy a sewing machine, and
go to work. YOU CAN NEVER BE A SINGER."
Never is a long time! The director of the Vienna Court Opera knew much
about the technique of singing. He knew little about the power of desire, when it
assumes the proportion of an obsession. If he had known more of that power, he
would not have made the mistake of condemning genius without giving it an
opportunity.
Several years ago, one of my business associates became ill. He became
worse as time went on, and finally was taken to the hospital for an operation.
Just before he was wheeled into the operating room, I took a look at him, and
wondered how anyone as thin and emaciated as he, could possibly go through a
major operation successfully. The doctor warned me that there was little if any
chance of my ever seeing him alive again. But that was the DOCTOR'S
OPINION. It was not the opinion of the patient. Just before he was wheeled
away, he whispered feebly, "Do not be disturbed, Chief, I will be out of here in a
few days." The attending nurse looked at me with pity. But the patient did come
through safely. After it was all over, his physician said, "Nothing but his own
desire to live saved him. He never would have pulled through if he had not
refused to accept the possibility of death."
I believe in the power of DESIRE backed by FAITH, because I have seen
this power lift men from lowly beginnings to places of power and wealth; I have
seen it rob the grave of its victims; I have seen it serve as the medium by which
men staged a comeback after having been defeated in a hundred different ways; I
have seen it provide my own son with a normal, happy, successful life, despite
Nature's having sent him into the world without ears.
How can one harness and use the power of DESIRE? This has been
answered through this, and the subsequent chapters of this book. This message is
going out to the world at the end of the longest, and perhaps, the most
devastating depression America has ever known. It is reasonable to presume that
the message may come to the attention of many who have been wounded by the
depression, those who have lost their fortunes, others who have lost their positions, and great numbers who must reorganize their plans and stage a
comeback. To all these I wish to convey the thought that all achievement, no
matter what may be its nature, or its purpose, must begin with an intense,
BURNING DESIRE for something definite.
Through some strange and powerful principle of "mental chemistry"
which she has never divulged, Nature wraps up in the impulse of STRONG
DESIRE "that something" which recognizes no such word as impossible, and
accepts no such reality as failure.  

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